This post comes really late, since it's going to be a reflection post on 2012.
I have looked back at 2012 and when asked to sum up the year, all i could say was...
I loved and lost.
For once in my life, I experienced extreme joy and pain in a matter of months.
People around me have shared with me their take and stand. I shan't defend myself because I have been on the sidelines before, watching a similar scene unfold. I voiced my opinions then but now, all I can say is, only the person involved fully understands why a particular decision is made.
Selfish or selfless? It depends. It really depends.
I no longer judge.
Well intentions and advice are always grating on the ears. They do not have ill intentions when the words are spoken but the words are like salt on open wounds. After this incident, I've learnt. I have learnt to slow down and listen to others and be less quick to judge.
Words spoken are meant to be heard.
So anyway, do I regret this whole saga?
Slap me if you wish, but I don't.
I have loved and lost but I never regretted. It was the best time of my life.
