Monday, 27 December 2010

- 今年 -

This Christmas...as the priest said, marks a new beginning.
What is the meaning and significance of Christmas to you?
Christmas shouldn't be a festival that gives us an excuse to shop.
Christmas shouldn't be just about exchanging gifts.
CHRISTmas should be the celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ!
So please do not cross out Christ in your Christmas wishes! CHRISTmas is spelt as Christmas, and no other way :)

This Christmas, I took very few photos..for obvious reasons. Anw, here are pictures of some of the gifts I personalised! I don't have pictures of the completed ones because I gave them out before I took them -_-"'

Oh I realised out of all the parties/gatherings I attended, I only have pictures of one -__-"' Here goes~ Super ugly but oh well..I have simply no idea why my eyes are so small -__-"'


OOH! See that pair of heels I'm in? They are at least 3-inches. (EDIT: Ok I just measured them. They are 4 inches. They are the highest pair of heels i own!) Gosh. I lovee them so much!! But strutting around in them (trying to look at though it's painless after 3 hours) is no mean feat. But I love them anyways :P (but I don't love walking around long in them. Standing around is fine haha)

Have a Blessed and Merry Christmas, everyone.

Wednesday, 22 December 2010

- シ・エス・アイ・ -

Finally watched Confessions. It was a great show - different, elaborate and thought-provoking. Many times during the movie, I found myself trying to shrink my not-so-small-frame further in to the seat. Nevertheless, it is one of my favourite Japanese movies for this year, well..second to Nodame, of course ^-^

After the first part of the movie, we actually thought the show ended and was pretty shocked. Everyone was murmuring, "Huh?! Is this the end???" I felt so cheated. Like WHAT??? This movie is rated 5 stars and it's just an ordinary narration from one person's perspective?! We were not even halfway through our popcorn and drinks! HAHAHA! It was then the story continued. As the story unfolded, Barney whispered "Oh my gosh. This movie is so creepy." ROFL.

I think the story reveals how one situation, the same situation, means and affects individuals in different ways. Everyone, regardless of age, reacts differently and accepts (or not) differently. The way they deal with the truth, or what they perceive to be the truth, can be frightfully extreme. I don't think I should spoil the movie further for those who want to catch it. I highly recommend this movie!! But there aren't many screenings left!

After watching the movie, I suddenly remembered I went for the Cee..Esss..Aiii..exhibition, for work-related purposes, a while back. Ok, quite a long while back actually. As it was a special trip, I got to do some experiments and managed to have some "training" that were not open to public! ^-^ (I even had to rummage through a dustbin to find clues, test to see if the substance is blood etc etc) Very insightful!

BUT the important thing is, I found my talent! HAHAHAHA! I'm very observant!! (says me) HAHAHA! Spotted many clues at the scenes of the crimes that many left out and managed to infer accurately. Thus, I was terribly smug. ROFL! Even the trainer seemed impressed! So I might have found my second career..hiakhiak! I'm referring to the stuff that I had to do that are not open to normal ticket holders. I'm obviously still very pleased with myself. ROFL.

Here's my diploma!


Monday, 20 December 2010

- なってない -

真可笑。一直追问原因的人其实就是原因。

- なくなちゃった -

一直以来,明明不好受,但坚持说没问题。这单方面的付出已渐渐地失去了意义。

Friday, 17 December 2010

- 謝罪 -

生活中一定会有无意伤害到人的时候。这种心灵的创伤不易弥补。一句道歉能够完完全全地弥补当事者吗?

受伤了就会有疤痕。怎么尝试掩盖,疤痕仍然存在。同样的,感情上出现了裂痕,虽然表面上可能没有大致上的改变,缝隙的存在不可否认。

虽然如此,但道歉的话也得说,不是吗?

但人往往被自尊或害怕阻止应该做的事。我就是一个例子。

好几次,因为害怕所以不敢做或说莫些事。

有时不是我不要跟你说话,而是不敢。请你谅解我的心情。




今天,我又伤害了一个人了。对不起。

Thursday, 16 December 2010

- プレセンート -

Wen-chan is singing "All I want for Christmas is Yuuuuuu"

Haha. Lately, people around me have been dropping hints as to what they want which is extremely helpful because I don't have to fret and guess what the receiver will like.

I've also been asked what I want for Christmas so that equilibrium will be achieved and deadweight loss will be ideally non-existent. (Hahaha..obviously I'm still thinking about the article from Economist.)

So one of my friends was bugging me on what I wanted. I really, really didn't know so I said "Anything" to which I received a retort that there is definitely something I wanted! I thought about it and said, "Happiness".

If you thought my friend would slap me in exasperation, you are wrong. My friend was so concerned about whether I was unhappy. HAHAHA! Oh my gosh, so sweet right? Truth is, everyone wants Happiness, isn't it!?!? And Happiness is unlimited! More of it will be absolute bliss!!

Rofl. Why do people jump to conclusions thinking you're unhappy when you say you want Happiness??

Tsktsk yearning for more Happiness doesn't necessarily equate to the lack of Happiness.

Haha so back to what I want for Christmas..well..as long as thought and effort was put into the present, it'll be great! I would absolutely love a letter or a hand-made card over...say...a box of chocolates grabbed off a shelf (even though I'm mad about chocolates).

And Joe, when you are finally back and reading this, please note that I'm waiting earnestly for your present. THE present that you PROMISED to get me. Hurry back!!

I'm done with personalisations of the first batch of my gifts! ^^ Oh my goodness! Christmas is just next week! And I'm not done with Christmas shopping! Eeekss!!

Toodles~

All I want for Christmas is youuuuuu....!!
Yes, you!
Huggss!
Someone buy this for me, please!
Hahaha!





Wednesday, 15 December 2010

- センタ -

http://www.economist.com/node/885748

Is Santa a deadweight loss?
Are all those Christmas gifts just a waste of resources?

ECONOMICS has long been known as the dismal science. But is any economist so dreary as to criticise Christmas? At first glance, the holiday season in western economies seems a treat for those concerned with such vagaries as GDP growth. After all, everyone is spending; in America, retailers make 25% of their yearly sales and 60% of their profits between Thanksgiving and Christmas. Even so, economists find something to worry about in the nature of the purchases being made.

Much of the holiday spending is on gifts for others. At the simplest level, giving gifts involves the giver thinking of something that the recipient would like—he tries to guess her preferences, as economists say—and then buying the gift and delivering it. Yet this guessing of preferences is no mean feat; indeed, it is often done badly. Every year, ties go unworn and books unread. And even if a gift is enjoyed, it may not be what the recipient would have bought had they spent the money themselves.

Intrigued by this mismatch between wants and gifts, in 1993 Joel Waldfogel, then an economist at Yale University, sought to estimate the disparity in dollar terms. In a paper* that has proved seminal in the literature on the issue, he asked students two questions at the end of a holiday season: first, estimate the total amount paid (by the givers) for all the holiday gifts you received; second, apart from the sentimental value of the items, if you did not have them, how much would you be willing to pay to get them? His results were gloomy: on average, a gift was valued by the recipient well below the price paid by the giver.

The most conservative estimate put the average receiver's valuation at 90% of the buying price. The missing 10% is what economists call a deadweight loss: a waste of resources that could be averted without making anyone worse off. In other words, if the giver gave the cash value of the purchase instead of the gift itself, the recipient could then buy what she really wants, and be better off for no extra cost.

Non-cash gifts from extended family were found to be least efficient
Perhaps not surprisingly, the most efficient gifts (those with the smallest deadweight loss) were those from close friends and relations, while non-cash gifts from extended family were the least efficient. As the age difference between giver and recipient grew, so did the inefficiency. All of which suggests what many grandparents know: when buying gifts for someone with largely unknown preferences, the best present is one that is totally flexible (cash) or very flexible (gift vouchers).

If the results are generalised, a waste of one dollar in ten represents a huge aggregate loss to society. It suggests that in America, where givers spend $40 billion on Christmas gifts, $4 billion is being lost annually in the process of gift-giving. Add in birthdays, weddings and non-Christian occasions, and the figure would balloon. So should economists advocate an end to gift-giving, or at least press for money to become the gift of choice?


Sentimental value

There are a number of reasons to think not. First, recipients may not know their own preferences very well. Some of the best gifts, after all, are the unexpected items that you would never have thought of buying, but which turn out to be especially well picked. And preferences can change. So by giving a jazz CD, for example, the giver may be encouraging the recipient to enjoy something that was shunned before. This, and a desire to build skills, is presumably the hope held by the many parents who ignore their children's pleas for video games and buy them books instead.

Second, the giver may have access to items—because of travel or an employee discount, for example—that the recipient does not know existed, cannot buy, or can only buy at a higher price. Finally, there are items that a recipient would like to receive but not purchase. If someone else buys them, however, they can be enjoyed guilt-free. This might explain the high volume of chocolate that changes hands over the holidays.

The thought actually does count
But there is a more powerful argument for gift-giving, deliberately ignored by most surveys. Gift-giving, some economists think, is a process that adds value to an item over and above what it would otherwise be worth to the recipient. Intuition backs this up, of course. A gift's worth is not only a function of its price, but also of the giver and the circumstances in which it is given.

Hence a wedding ring is more valuable to its owner than to a jeweller, and the imprint of a child's hand on dried clay is priceless to a loving grandparent. Moreover, not only can gift-giving add value for the recipient, but it can be fun for the giver too. It is good, in other words, to give as well as to receive.

The lesson, then, for gift-givers? Try hard to guess the preferences of each person on your list and then choose a gift that will have a high sentimental value. As economists have studied hard to tell you, it's the thought that counts.

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I can't remember during which Econs lecture that we had but the lecturer showed us this. I suddenly thought of it and decided to post it.

Deadweight loss.
Econs, as much as we (or I) not enjoy it, it's very much ingrained our lives.

Yes, I was an Econs student.

Tuesday, 14 December 2010

- クリスマース!! -


Christmas is near!
Have you done your Christmas shopping?!?!?!
I've started but I'm far from completion! EEKS!
So many things to get but so little time!
As I like to personally choose each gift and personalise them as much as possible as well, time is really running out for me!

Hahah as I was sorting out the recent trip's pictures to find some Christmas-sy pictures to post here, I came across some hilarious photos!! This one is from my sister's camera!! We were on the Disney train and I was taking pictures of the scenery when she asked me to pose and yayy! This was the shot. You know, one thing people always asks me to take fun shots, I find myself the only one posing -.- ANW! Check out how my new camera looks like! It's purplish pink and takes really awesome shots!

Oh THIS picture was really funny. One grouse about my new camera is that I can't quite grasp the timing to take jumping shots. I haven't quite figured out how to capture jumping images with this. So I was jumping and jumping and my mum was laughing and laughing everytime she saw the end result. She's the one helping me take jumping shots by the way. I didn't really know to be fed up or not because she was really guffawing so hard I just had to laugh along.

Whenever I look at this shot, I recall Barney's comment.
He said "Actually from the first time, I realised you're really short"
-.-
I was tiptoeing in this shot but it can't be seen. Haha.
Thank God Barney is never going to see this picture.
OH I don't like Leon Lai but this picture is pretty cute, don't you think?
Hahaha!

It's late! Will post more pictures another day! Till then, jya~

Sunday, 12 December 2010

- やっぱり・・・ -


하루에도 수 십 번씩 전화기를 보고 작은 소리에도 놀라서
너의 문자인지 몇 번씩 확인하곤 했어

Wednesday, 8 December 2010

- 神様、本当にありがとうございました -

Thank you, God.
For being with us throughout and keeping us safe.
From shielding us from danger though we were at the scenes when the accidents took place.

"To all visitors, welcome to Singapore!
And to all Singaporeans and permanent residents, welcome back home!"

A surge of happiness rushed through me.

Thank you, God.
We're safely home.